My ruckus making is…

Inspiring our mental health providers to provide their sharpest game and supporting people in healing their trauma to live their best lives. I provide training programs for counseling graduate students and, a few months each year, I act as the lead therapist and interim director for a holistic rehab in Hawaii.  

My focus is…

Creation, Connection, and Contribution, especially around methods for healing. More than anything, I want to support others in accessing internal peace. I want to contribute workshops, community spaces, a wiki group therapy platform – that can continue to grow without becoming stagnant on the creator, articles, systems, apps, and especially new ideas. This shapes most of my life decisions. Saying no to a lot, so I can have the time for creation, connection, and contribution.

I also love learning lots of stuff, especially different approaches to healing, thinking and living. That’s why I absorb so much from a multitude of fields, explore the world, and want to keep absorbing and growing. I connect with those who stretch, strive, and grow, and love having meaningful conversations with others about their view of how things work. I’m optimizing my life for learning and connecting.

Forethought Thursday 2019-08-16

Welcome to my weekly newsletter, which will be looking at four ideas that may benefit our future. These concepts will be around the topic of emotional well-being. Please let me know your questions and or ideas! I would love to cover them in a future issue.

The First Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy TED Talk – While you may have heard me speak a lot about the efficacy of psychedelic assisted psychotherapy, this talk is by Rich Dublin. For 30 years, he’s been heading the science into getting psychedelic assisted psychotherapy accepted by the western scientific model. It’s a great talk, check it out if you or loved ones are affected by trauma, anxiety, or depression.

3 Group Therapy Check-In Exercises – This is part of my 12 week video series I’m releasing on group therapy skills. If you’re a therapist looking for additional group therapy tools or an individual wanting to build emotional fitness, check out these three videos: KeysEnvironmentToys

Trauma and Leadership – A recent paper stated “Collective traumas and the development of leader values is a currently omitted, but increasingly urgent, research area”. Trauma, both small and large, separates us from ourselves and others, and has a substantial impact on teams. It’s vital that we support everyone, including our leaders, in healing trauma. 

Quote I’m Pondering: “What if we stopped celebrating being busy as a measurement of importance? What if instead we celebrated how much time we had spent listening, pondering, meditating, and enjoying time with the most important people in our lives?”

Slow is Fast

A Navy SEAL slogan is “Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast.”

I’ve been working on this lesson for awhile. I was sedentary the first 20+ years of my life; I avoided physical discomfort at all costs. Then in my 20’s, I started getting physically fit, yet the pendulum swung too far. I realized I could push myself through discomfort, yet also pushed myself through the warning pains from my body. I spent years in recovery going to different specialists to relieve the pain from damage.

I recently picked up running again on a trip to Hawaii. I felt so amazing after the first few runs, and I wanted that amazing feeling to stick around. Though pain from previous injuries started coming up on the following runs. This time I listened, even though a piece of me didn’t want to. On several runs, I switched to walking, took frequent stretch breaks, or turned around early. A couple weeks of listening to my body and I’m quicker than I was when I started. I’m allowing myself to deeply let in the message that slowing down and listening to my body allows me to go do the things I desire.

I believe slowing down can allow so many things to flourish, especially relationships, whether it’s your relationship with self or others.

In what way could you slow down to flourish?

Spreading Emotional Wellbeing

What are the ways you can spread emotional wellbeing? There are many ways to support the community, such as allowing a child to have their own emotional reaction, spreading knowledge, or offering empathy with healthy boundaries.

SXSW is opening up their speaker proposals soon. A couple years ago, I had such an inspiring time at SXSW. I also believe the startup and tech world could benefit from more emotional awareness and balance and less burnout. Some ideas I’m considering are around empathy of work teams, balance vs burnout, and psychology behind ecstatic dance. If you would like to collaborate on any speaking proposals or would just like to chat about the proposal process, let me know.


In Essentialism, Greg speaks to the importance of seeing what matters by understanding the motives of all players involved in a situation and recommends role playing. Who are you having difficulty understanding today? What if you took the role play even deeper and paused after a piece that was harder to understand, and took a moment to guess at what could be an even deeper truth for that person. Then paused again and guessed what could be the deepest truth for that person. For example if someone says “That idea is ridiculous”, a deeper truth could be “I’m overwhelmed and can’t comprehend this idea right now”, and the deepest truth could be “I’m terrified of losing what I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life making, and when I’m terrified everything seems ridiculous”. How could taking the moment to pause and deepen in empathy effect your day today?

Why isn’t this working?

When a treatment, intervention, or strategy isn’t working, it’s time to pause, breathe, and evaluate. If the term “resistent client” or “stubborn family member” couldn’t exist in our minds, how would we act differently? If we absolutely believed there was a way we could support this person’s growth, how would you act and think differently in the room. Would you blame the other person less and take extreme ownership of the situation? While it might not be true that we can find the needed approach or intervention, if we don’t believe it’s out there, how could we find it?

Radical Transparency

The film Saving Capitalism highlighted the lack of transparency in how the regulation system is formed. What if some politicians decided to wear webcams and allow the public to see into meetings, dinners, and even their personal bank accounts? I wonder how the system may shift towards increased health of the whole.

Is there a place in your life that increasing your transparency may increase the health of the system? What’s one actionable step you can take towards that transparency?

013 Changing Behavior Exercise

Here’s a quick exercise to apply when you are someone your working with is stating a desire to change a behavior, yet they haven’t done it yet. I first learned it working at this Holistic Rehab. I’ve added to it theories that might explain why it works, to support in a deeper understanding of why it may be more difficult to change our behaviors when we don’t take the time to consciously address underlying beliefs.

If you would like to see a video of this exercise, go to:

012 Integrative Mental Health and Depression Interventions

In this episode, I touch on what integrative mental health means to me, go over criteria so support you in selecting interventions that are meaningful to you, and list some integrative interventions for depression. I would love to hear your thoughts. Please feel free to post on my website or email me. Here are the show notes:

Depression as a heat and inflammatory response. 

  • Scientists are discovering there are different subtypes of Alzheimer’s 
  • Beliefs are that we will see this is the same for many different mental health concerns
  • So many interventions are effective, yet not one intervention is effective for everyone

Possible Depression Interventions:

  • 2 grams of EPA Fish Oil per day
  • Broccoli Sprouts of 2 cups per day or lesser amount of sprouts with a Broccoli Sprouts Powder Pill – It’s still important to eat the sprouts as the same time of the pill. Miocene is destroyed when broccoli sprouts are powdered, without Miocene the body can’t produce Sulforaphane from the broccoli sprout powder. Some people have a gut bacterium that produces an adequate amount of Miocene and some people’s gut bacteria produce very little, so take pills with sprouts at the same time or eat 2 cups of sprouts per day.
  • Heat Exposure (Sauna or Hot Bath), Hot Yoga, or intense exercise – 4 times a week for 30-100 minutes, with hot water at 104 degrees, for 4 to 8 weeks. Heat exposure releases about 77% of the beneficial hormones as intense exercise does, so if one isn’t able to significantly raise their body temperature through intense exercise begin with Heat Exposure. Hot yoga volunteers wearing a rectal probe raised their internal temperatures to a similar temperature as participants in an infrared box for 100 minutes. A percentage of people with depression have a low-grade internal fever, though feel cold to the touch. Heat exposure is believed to reset the bodies’ temperature mechanism, as people with heat exposure maintain a lower internal body temperature. Heat exposure also activates opioid receptors in the body and offers pain relief. 
  • Safe Space Exercise, 8-10 times a day for 20-30 seconds (5 minutes a day) – studies showed that practicing an exercise similar to this one,, for 8-10 times a day, for 20-30 seconds, for 6 weeks, changed blood flow in what was believed to be a beneficial way, increased blood flow in pre-frontal cortex, during scans.
  • Eat a high fat, moderate protein, low carb, and no highly processed food diet for maximum reduction in inflammation. Fats help insulate neuro connections, reducing static and noise in brain, decrease anxious thoughts, and support in deeper sleep. Any highly processed foods should be avoided, eg anything that’s been turned into a powder, even protein powders are quickly absorbed by the body and are more likely to be turned into carbohydrates and have an inflammatory affect. 
  • Fasting as a way to decrease inflammation – recommended minimum to reduce inflammation is 24-hour fasts, so could finish dinner Sunday at 6pm, then on Monday break the fast at 6pm. For people with low body weigh, it’s important to get in a sufficient amount of calories. When breaking the fast eat lots of healthy fats and some healthy proteins. Carbohydrates have an inflammation effect, all processed carbohydrates and sugars should be avoided. Sheep milk/cheese and coconut oil are preferred by the brain. Okay to do “Fast Mimicking” Diet, which allows for fats to be eaten, eg butter/heavy cream/MCT Oil in coffee, macadamia nuts, bone broth, etc. 
  • Somatic Therapies & Meditation  – EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Trauma Resolution – modalities that work with the body. It is believed that both verbal and physical trauma, as well as other traumas, mentholated the dna, this methylation/change to the epigenetic, can be passed on for generations, increasing cortisol, which is correlated to anxiety and depression
  • Psilocybin assisted psychotherapy – psilocybin is being shown to support amygdala regeneration, this is the part of the brain that takes signals and determines if they are threats are not. Psilocybin assisted psychotherapy is being shown to drastically reduce the default mode network and believed to increase neuroplasticity through this mechanism

Resources to follow:

Notes from Episodes:

Evolutionary Theory – 10,000 years ago we were most likely to die from infections from wounds. When we were emotionally stressed it was more likely that we would be wounded, eg feeling stressed during a hunt or an attack from another tribe. Our bodies would increase their temperature, as this would support us in killing off infections; similar to the theory of why body temperature rises after eating, as a way to kill off any infectious materials in the food.

  • Rhonda Patrick – The Underlying Mechanics of Depression – 9 min video –
  • Causes of depression – overactivity of our immune system or inflammation, which can be caused by poor nutrition, obesity, poor gut health, sedentary lifestyle, poor sleep and social stress, important to address
  • 2 grams of EPA Fish Oil Per Day, has been shown in studies to reduce depressive symptoms
  • Minute 26 depression, minute 38 recap. 
  • Dose 40 minute – powder and sprout over doubles the effect, only sprouts are uncooked croucerfous veggies have miocene, miocene is needed to transform into sulforaphane, and mustard seed 
  • 24 hour fasting for depression. 
  • Some people made need more inflammatory stress instead of less, yet majority of people need decrease in inflamation
  • Heat exposure, hot yoga, rectal temperature is the same in hot yoga as in heat exposure box, hot sauna, or even hot bath
  • Heat stress activates u-opiod receptor and has 33% more potency than morphine, and diaphorne is upregulated
  • Taking antioxidants after heat stress prevents beneficial response for depression

011 My Emotional Breakdown or Breakthrough

This week I’m sharing a personal breakdown that happened after an absolutely amazing week of volunteering with Zendo at Lightning in a Bottle. I’m sharing with you my insights of what I learned from it and ways I hope to operate differently in the future, so I’m better able to take emotional care of myself in the future. Maybe you can learn from my experiences and avoid the intensity of my learning experience.

010 Spiritual Burnout and The Phoenix

This is an interesting conversation between Mary and myself. I would love for us to have a follow up conversation on this topic. Here are the show notes:

  • Possible Individual Symptoms
    • Losing Connection, Passion
    • Feelings of Synasism
    • Old practices, such as church or praying that seem to no longer fulfill connection to greater sense of self
  • Burnout in our Society – connection to the universal experience that’s happening in the world right now
    • Structures of Power, Privilege, Government, Finances
    • Feelings of burnout representing greater macrocosm
  • Feeling of burnout not a personal flaw that needs to be fixed
    • empathy for greater system & self
    • Tended to own suffering differently
  • What’s the effect of professionals treating people in fight or flight/sympathetic arousal, on the mirror neurons of the professional?
    • Example of being in the dentist chair with heightened heart rate
  • Disillusionment
    • Beliefs about life and how it all works were being dismantled
    • Beliefs about fair and being in a developed country and working hard will equal success
    • Recognizing how systems are unfair
    • Many people in the U.S. are seeing behind the curtain – unfairness, oppression, racism, structure of power and privilege to maintain success of some and oppression of others
    • Me too movement
      • Helping organizations grow better leaders – saw how organizations protected male leaders, lost faith
      • Larger awareness working ass off to alleviate suffering and support people in feeling, saw that amount of suffering in the world is still the same – heart broken
    • Media and it’s effect
  • Psychedelices & Spirituality –
    • Personal stories
    • Sense of connection and boundaried connection

The relationship between spirituality and burnout among medical students

Medical student burnout has been associated with depression, loss of empathy, and suicidal ideation. Spirituality has been identified in previous studies as a protective factor in coping with the stress but has not been examined as a factor in medical student burnout. An internet link to an anonymous survey was sent via email to medical students at a public northeastern medical school; 259/469 (55.2%) completed it. The survey included measures of spirituality, burnout, psychological distress, coping, and general happiness. A Pearson-r correlation showed significant inverse correlations between measures of spirituality and measures of psychological distress/burnout (r’s ranging from -.62 to -.14; p’s <.01). In contrast, a positive correlation was found between life satisfaction and spirituality (r’s .53 to .12; p<.05). Using hierarchical multiple regression with demographics (Step 1), mental health variables (Step 2), and satisfaction and Adaptive coping (Step 3), burnout remained significantly related to lower scores on both spirituality measures (FACIT-SP p<.00 and DSE p<.05). Students having higher levels of spiritual well being and daily spiritual experiences described themselves as more satisfied with their life in general, while students with low scores on spiritual well being and daily spiritual experiences had higher levels of psychological distress and burnout. Spirituality may therefore be a protective factor against burnout in medical students and future studies should explore potential causal relationships.